Leave a room cleaner, more organized, more beautiful than you found it. Leave people happier, stronger, more encouraged than you found them.
Author: Conna Bond
Rare and Wonderful
We complain longest and loudest about traits in others that we ourselves possess but are better than they at hiding, sometimes from ourselves. We tend to judge others for openly exhibiting traits we possess but restrain, such as selfishness, loudness, attention-seeking, or lying. As if our restraint erases the trait and somehow cleanses our inner…
Certain Path
A billion everyday choices add up to an ultimate choice. An ongoing “Since I’m uncertain, I’ll go with my doubts” is still a certain path.
All You Need
Today I took the first scenic road trip I’ve taken alone in perhaps 25 years. Since before Florida, Mark and the children, law school and Montana (the first time), Texas (the second time), Colorado, and Washington (the third time). It was the long road home through the Kootenai forest on the first and longest day…
Everything I Hope
Never been so happy to see a face! This is Dan. We knew him way back when and always wondered whether we’d see him again. He was the rentals guy at the Big Mountain base lodge–before it was remodeled and became Whitefish Mountain Resort. We used to call ahead on homeschool ski days. He’d have…
Daily Ten
A doctor once told me you don’t reap the benefits of exercise until you’ve worked out for more than 30 minutes. I believed him, and it discouraged me for years, because who has 30 minutes for anything, much less every day? Then I started doing an intensive, daily10-minute workout for three weeks and went down…
Doesn’t Matter
It doesn’t matter how much you actually care if no one perceives that you do.
Ditch the Bone
When I fed the dogs this morning, Welby wouldn’t eat. He ran off to retrieve his bone so Caddie wouldn’t get it. He stood there helpless over his food dish, clutching the bone in his mouth. He couldn’t eat while having to guard that bone. I gently took it away from him, saving him from…
Call It Good
In London it’s Horlicks. In America it’s Ovaltine. My version: 1 mug hot or steamed Silk soymilk (original) and 4-5 heaping teaspoons of Ovaltine (chocolate malt), topped with a drizzle of whipped cream.
The View
I loved them so much then. I love them even more now. These are the memories that make growing old together rich and sweet. We could barely see each other through the fog back then. We see each other clearly and beautifully now—just like the view from our front porch, then and now.
Keeping Company
The jury’s still out on whether chocolate and caffeine harm or help us. I’m inclined to embrace the news that they reduce cholesterol, prevent memory loss, and decrease inflammation leading to heart disease, although caffeine may not be great for children. How is it, though, that something that’s harmful at 5 or 15 no longer…
Degrees
You comprehend someone’s love for you only to the degree that you love them back.