To the Mountains

It’s important to get out. Not just to see mountains but to see and interact with people. People who aren’t exactly like you. People who don’t see things exactly like you…

Bigger Pictures

So often we are judged by our knee jerk reactions rather than by our thoughtful responses. We’re judged by our reactions when we’re hurt, cornered, fearful, hopeless, and alone rather than by our responses when we’re peacefully and thoughtfully convicted. There is more to us than search results, sound bites, and social media posts. We…

Inventing the Truth

In a conversation with friends about the role that acceptance plays in life and especially in healing, it suddenly clicked with me that…

Change

Change the way you think about things to…

Chasm

There’s a vast chasm between…

Anyway

Your emotionally immature parent Took things as they came Gave everything they had Hoped it would be enough. Your emotionally immature parent Saw the best in you Believed the best in you  Tried to see the best in themselves. Looked.  Hoped.  Believed.  Your emotionally immature parent Actually cared Tried to make life good for you…

In the End

We kept her alive maybe longer than we should have. The four of us. But those extra years were bonus years. Even when she didn’t know us…

Missing the Point

In missing the point, it is possible to miss the entire experience.

When the Cows Cry

In the evening, the cows up on the hill at the Lonesome Dove Ranch cry as if they’ve lost their calves. It reminds me of my last phone call with my father.

The Problem With You

Be different. But not completely different. Just different in the way we think you should be different. Different in the way we think others think you should be different. Because we know. And they know. Better than you. Who you should be. Regardless of who you are.Regardless of how you feel.Regardless of what you know.Regardless…